This is your life and you must live it your way. If you love your boyfriend, then you must marry him only and not some random person chosen by your family. The first step is for you to believe and be fully committed to this eventuality.
If you are serious about this relationship and you are sure that you can’t accept anyone else as your life partner, then only talk to your parents. Before talking to your parents, first think about that are you really serious about this relationship? Are you ready to face anything for her if situation comes? Are you sure that she is the only one and you can’t imagine your future without her? If your answer to above questions is YES, then you should discuss this with your parents and tell them about your feelings for her.
- First talk to your partner about her indirectly and tell them that there is someone special in your life who is more than just a friend (Tips to Convince Your Parents for Love Marriage).
- You should tell them about your feeling how important she is for you and what exactly you feel about her.
- Tell them about her qualities, educational background, and professional achievements.
- Most the parents are bothered about the religion and caste. If she is from a different caste or religion, tell them that it will never going to create any complication in your relationship in future.
- Talk to them politely and whenever you get time or you think they are in good mood. Don’t hesitate to tell your feeling and emotions for her.
- If you think that your grandparents, relatives or your sibling can help you in convincing your parents for your relationship don’t hesitate to involve them.
- Don’t let your parents share or discuss this thing with someone who is against love marriage. He/she can create problem and might work against you.
- Don’t be too pushy and clingy in your approach as such you need their decision overnight. Give them some time to accept her and your relationship.
- Always remember your childhood days, when you used to make some unexpected demand and how you convince your parents to approve that thing. So, one again use that trick with your parents after all you will be their child always.
- Try and fix an informal meeting of your parents with her. So, it will help them to know her personally.
- Tell them about her family and social status. To make them understand that her family is at par with your family.
- If someone on your family or friend circle has already done love marriage, give their example to them.
- Never say yes to meet someone else for marriage even to make them happy. It will give them impression that you can also change your mind if they will pressurise you.
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